So…there is a space for women who are in relationships. There is a space for single mothers. There is a space for married women with children. There is a space for women who desire and prioritize being partnered. There is a space for women who are single and waiting to be partnered. There is a space for women who are depressed, sad and angry due to their singleness. But where is the space for women who desire to thrive in their singleness and not waiting to be chosen for partnership?

There really isn’t one.

This is where my writing comes in. Every time I write a blog post, I am creating space for me and women like me. It is important to be intentional about who you allow in your space. It is important to create a space where you thrive. There is no safe space for women who just want to live and be joyous exactly where they are. This internet space known as http://www.myphoenixarising.com is that space for me. It is also a space for you if you are a woman who has torn down the social conditioning that comes with being a woman. If you are a woman who isn’t waiting on a man (or woman if you are 🏳️‍🌈) to choose you because your value hinges on a relationship, you are welcome to join me. You are seen here. Your voice and perspective matters here. We won’t whine about being single. We just live, be happy and continue to support each other. If we do get in a relationship or get married-we just pass the Baton. This space is NOT a waiting room to be chosen. There is already plenty of those. This is a live and stop waiting space. Women are always waiting on something…this is a space to get away from that. Life is too short for anything but the pursuit of happiness.

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