A couple of weeks ago I wrote about dying victorious. If I didn’t get what I want, I would rather die single. It is true.
Although I was in a situationship, I was very sincere regarding women divorcing their worth from being in a relationship. The socialization has women bound. Many women have their lives on hold waiting on some partner. As I’ve said before and will say again: THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH DESIRING PARTNERSHIP! Hell-I desired partnership–that’s why I was in that situation. BUT: We have to divorce our worth from being in a relationship.
Although I am in a healing phase in my life, I welcome partnership. Although I welcome partnership my motivation isn’t for my life to turn into some type of Tyler Perryesque movie where all of a sudden the love of my life comes in after heartbreak. I am perfectly okay with my “Greater” with me being healed, at peace with a life worth living regardless of a partnership.
Therefore-If I die single, I will die victorious because that means I would have done the work on myself to ensure I live an abundant life. If a partner deserving of me comes along, great.
If not, great.