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Compassion Chronicles

Compassion for the Disconnected

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Look: I can’t afford to be ignorant. I can’t afford to bury my head in the sand and not accept the reality of my life. I can’t afford to waste time on waiting for a spouse and being miserable JUST because I don’t have a partner. I owe my self the duty of honesty, acceptance of my current reality and doing the work of ensuring my happiness REGARDLESS of whether I am perpetually single or not. Life is now, and you only get one shot at it. Don’t be ignorant to who you are, your truth and YOUR personal pathway in life. #tomuchisgivenmuchisrequired #singlegirl #singlelife #singlelifebelike #singlenessisablessing❤️ #singleman #singlemanlife
We have been taught that the fairy tale life is having the spouse, house, great job and kids. Just because society has taught us this doesn’t make it necessarily so. The fairy tale life is the life that is lived on purpose, grace, love and confidence! People are so conditioned that being married and having kids is the ultimate life that people are willing to marry strangers on a reality show for six weeks. Although there is no formula to love and partnership, the willingness to do that is a microcosm of how we are warped into thinking that we are incomplete if we don’t marry. Instead of waiting on a spouse, start figuring out what is YOUR fairy tale without the spouse being part of the equation. Once you begin that journey, may figure out that a lot of desire was based on social conditioning and wanting to fit in with others. It is perfectly normal to desire marriage, but is it a HEALTHY desire? Again, what is YOUR fairy tale life? It may NOT include marriage. That doesn’t make your life any less awesome. #singlelifeproblems #singlenessisablessing #singlegirl #singleman #singlelife #letlovefindyou❤️ #loveyourself #marriedatfirstsight
There is NO formula to finding or being found by love. As singles, we can often judge the course of our life by another person’s love journey. Just because a person “found” love at 25 doesn’t mean you are less than because love hasn’t found you yet. To be honest, folks should stop looking for love and enjoy themselves but that’s for a different post. #singlelifeisablessing #singleness #singlegirl #letlovefindyou❤️
Don’t worry about what society says your life should be. Figure that out for yourself. Set your own standards. #single #singlegirl #singleness #singlenessisagift
Just because someone loves you doesn’t mean they are ready to commit to you. #lovequotes #lovechronicles2019 #singlegirl #singleandhappy❤️
Reality is personal and subjective. Just because you lived a life experience doesn’t mean that what you have experienced is the standard. Let’s respect other live experiences. #reality #realitycheckchallenge
  • Alternate Fairytale Series
  • Compassion Chronicles
  • Love
  • Life
  • Faith
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