If you are going to be happy, you have to stay in your own lane. You can't look left or right. You have to celebrate your victories without measuring them against what someone else is doing. Comparison is an ABSOLUTE NO. You also have to rid yourself of the need someone celebrating your victories with … Continue reading Alternate Fairytale Series: The Art of Staying In Your Own Lane
I didn't realize that I really didn't know myself until I stopped pining after the idea of a relationship. In 2016, I started this mental evolution towards consistent happiness without the crutch and contingency of a relationship. In 2017, I started to really pay attention to what moved my spirit; what made me feel peace. … Continue reading Alternate Fairytale Series: Getting to Know Yourself
The last two years has been such a growing experience for me. In 2016, I was miserable: although I was on the rebound financially, I was still single. As such, My life didn't have much value. Fast forward to 2019: I am the happiest I've ever been. For the first time in my life, I … Continue reading Alternate Fairytale Series: I Love My Life
Hey Everybody! It has been a while since I wrote. Life has been busy with work. Although I haven't posted, this prose has been in the works for some time. You see the picture? That is where my head has been. As a single woman who desires partnership, I've been pondering whether it is my … Continue reading Accepting God’s No
Being happy as a single woman in your late thirties is effort. It takes strength to be honest about your desires and the negative feelings about being single but not let those negative feelings erode your positivity about life in general. It also takes strength to stand up and be confident in a society where … Continue reading The Rebel
I am always thinking. Lately I have been asking myself, "Why do you want to be married?" Not the textbook reasons, but the ULTIMATE reason. Yes: I believe you have to have purpose with your partner. I desire purpose. But ultimately-I want to be married because I want to experience being a man's priority. I … Continue reading Why Marriage?
I have been blessed to walk this terrain. I get the opportunity to encourage women (and men) to change their life narrative; to break curses over their lives placed upon them by negative social conditioning. There is freedom is being able to balance and navigate life without the shackles of feeling less than enough because … Continue reading Change the Narrative