The Fluidity of Friendship

I will be honest-I wrote about friendship years ago, so this may be somewhat redundant. Since I have been evolving, my thought process on pretty much EVERYTHING has also changed, especially how I view friendships. Friendship used to be a very rigid concept; if there wasn't a certain level of frequency and duration in communication … Continue reading The Fluidity of Friendship

Alternate Fairy Tale Series: Keys to Being Truly Happy Single

It is 2:30 AM in my part of the world. Since I can't sleep, I may as well write! I got a spark in my spirit to share this and I hope it helps. In prior blogs, I discussed how being happy single is effort and society expects singles to be unhappy. The effort comes … Continue reading Alternate Fairy Tale Series: Keys to Being Truly Happy Single

Black Love Documentary, Episode 2 -The Reality of Love

Hey Everybody! I apologize for flaking on the double header yesterday. I got wrapped up in doing some other things. Let's drop right into it-Do you watch the Black Love Documentary on OWN Network? If not, it won't matter because the show will just be the backdrop of what I want to talk about. Really … Continue reading Black Love Documentary, Episode 2 -The Reality of Love

Alternate Fairy Tale Series: Taking Accountability

Hey Everyone! It's the weekend-we made it! FULL DISCLOSURE: I have a lot on my mind so I may hit you guys with a double or even triple header. Let's get into it. REAL QUICK: I have a companion blog on Instagram entitled Love Your Life Space @loveyourlifespace. Feel free to check it out. If … Continue reading Alternate Fairy Tale Series: Taking Accountability

Alternate Fairytale Series: The Art of Staying In Your Own Lane

If you are going to be happy, you have to stay in your own lane. You can't look left or right. You have to celebrate your victories without measuring them against what someone else is doing. Comparison is an ABSOLUTE NO. You also have to rid yourself of the need someone celebrating your victories with … Continue reading Alternate Fairytale Series: The Art of Staying In Your Own Lane

Alternate Fairytale Series: Getting to Know Yourself

I didn't realize that I really didn't know myself until I stopped pining after the idea of a relationship. In 2016, I started this mental evolution towards consistent happiness without the crutch and contingency of a relationship. In 2017, I started to really pay attention to what moved my spirit; what made me feel peace. … Continue reading Alternate Fairytale Series: Getting to Know Yourself

Alternate Fairytale Series: I Love My Life

The last two years has been such a growing experience for me. In 2016, I was miserable: although I was on the rebound financially, I was still single. As such, My life didn't have much value. Fast forward to 2019: I am the happiest I've ever been. For the first time in my life, I … Continue reading Alternate Fairytale Series: I Love My Life