Balancing Faith and Reality
I have John Coltrane and Duke Ellington’s In a Sentimental Mood playing in the background with fragrant candles burning. The atmosphere sparked a thought in…
Don’t Live in Fear. Just Live.
Single women's lives are often draped in fear. Fear of never getting married and as a result "being and dying alone". Fear of your eggs…
Dear Single Women: Divorce Your Commitment to Being Unhappy
So...being single birthed a passion in me. My intention for this blog and my @loveyourlifespace Instagram (which you can see the posts and connect from…
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Alternate Fairy Tale Series—Dear 35+ Single Women: Prioritize Becoming Your Dream Woman
The whole reason I resumed blogging is to chronicle being single and happy regardless if marriage is in the cards for me. Although I haven’t…
Why Single People Should Pump the Breaks on Always Being Accomodating to Married Friends’ Lives
It is 12:48 am in my part of the world and I am choosing violence with this piece. I am okay with that because I…
Be Yourself in 2021
Hey Y’all! Happy New Year! 2020 was a hard year for many. I know that the holidays were trash this year so I hope in…
Exercising Your Right to Feel
Hey People! This won’t be long. I just wanted to share something that has been on my mind and heart. As a single woman I…
Chapter 39: Celebrating Your Birthday and Valuing Your Life as a Single Woman
Hey y’all! I know I haven’t written anything in a while—life and work has been busy, but I wanted to share my birthday celebration with…
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P-Valley: An Exploration of Womanhood and the Power of Femininity
There is a hot new show on Starz Network called P-Valley. Unless you live under a rock, you probably have heard of it. P-Valley centers…
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Catalyst to My Destiny: A Tribute to Gary Grays, Jr. 1977-2020
“.....Though we changed in our endeavors..I find we still have some things in common...Ain’t it strange but wonderful that we’re still friends.....—-We’re Still Friends by…
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My phoenix arising 